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50 Things Wrong With 50 Shades of Grey

Tue, 08 May 2012 21:57:45 -0400

50 Shades of Grey is the book everyone is talking about. The first, second, and third books in the series that began as BDSM Twilight fanfiction are now the first, second, and third best sellers on Amazon. The problem is the books are AWFUL. Even without dealing with the gross media coverage of the books, the books themselves are horrible. I picked up the book at Powell’s and was sucked in to reading the whole thing—not because the erotic dominant-submissive tale drew me in, but because the book was so appallingly bad that I couldn’t look away. “There’s no way it could get worse,” I told myself page after page. And yet! It could! It did! Sure, it’s great to have a book that brings non-traditional sex into mainstream conversation, but the book winds up conflating dominance with rape, reinforcing old-school gender stereotypes, and having characters who talk like stilted Brits. Ugh. Here are 50 problems I wrote down as I slogged my way from cover to cover:

1. Right from the start, main character Ana is as interesting as wet cardboard. Will she ever tame her messy hair? Will she ever be more than empty vessel whose primary personality trait is “confused”?! Wait and see. (spoiler: no)

2. Oh great, this is going to be a book about the problems of gorgeous college students who own Mercedes. I just have trouble commiserating with characters who own luxury cars.

3. If this is a Twilight rip-off, Ana is the dull, vacuous female lead and Christian Grey is the werewolf and the vampire combined into a sexy CEO who is really into modernist architecture and getting his way? This is more like porn remake of The Fountainhead.

4. Everything in Grey’s “architect utilitarian fantasy” office is made of steel. Ana’s last name is Steele. They should have just disbanded with the subtlety and made named her “Ana Getsfucked.”

5. Already, I’m turned off by Ana and Grey’s relationship. Hooray for weird sex, but their relationship is built on a bunch of problematic gender stereotypes.

6. Like: Men are the pursuers of women, women are the objects of desire but who never do the pursuing themselves but just sit around looking accidentally gorgeous.

7. Like: Women are children, men are adults. Ana is basically a toddler, who literally falls over constantly, only to be hoisted into Grey’s manly man arms, and made to feel “like an errant child.”

8. Like: Don’t worry about being uncertain about who you are or what you want, ladies! A sexy bachelor knight on a horse made of money will come save you and figure out all that stuff for you.

9. Like: Women can’t really be friends with dudes, because the dudes are always secretly wanting to get in their pants. See: All of Ana’s dude friends.

10. Like: Men must be competitive with each other, never friendly, because they are always locked in a mental battle to get into their lady friends’ pants. See: Grey giving the “arctic glare” to all of Ana’s dude friends.

11. Who says ‘shall’? As in “shall I show you the cable ties?” NO ONE TALKS LIKE THAT. Except people who are dead these days.

12. ”I’m crap at DIY, I leave all that to my dad.” — Ana, who is capable of nothing but falling over occasionally.

13. As much as they’d like it, no one will ever recognize a CEO in public. No one will ever exclaim, “Is it really you? CEO of Grey Enterprises Holdings?”

14. There are three ways emotions are expressed in this book: blushing, jaw dropping, and constant eyebrow arching.

15. Use of the phrase, “Laters, baby.”

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50 shades..trilogy

Tue, 08 May 2012 21:39:46 -0400

I haven’t been on Tumblr in ages and decided to come back just to write my thoughts on 50 shades of Grey.So, here goes nothing.

jklxdhfjkchbjdfkb is exactly how I feel!? I am so torn by what has happened to literature that it just completely hurts me. I really loved the guy in the book, Christian Grey. I imagined him completely and I thought it was going to go somewhere great because they way he is described is so utterly magnificent. Boy, was I wrong. I loved Christian as a character but the plot after the first book was just so dreadful. I couldn’t put the book down because I cared about Christian but why was it all so STUPID! Why is it so fake? I seriously have a hard accepting that they are going to turn this book into a movie! WHY? You read the book and just cant put it into acting that is acceptable for a theater and not just that, its constant sex which will make an insignificant film because they really can’t sell porn at the box office. Ugh. I am so frustrated with this book because Grey really deserved more with his unbelievable good looks or so I imagined. I guess I just really despise the continuation after book one because it just go really stupid.

frustration over. Damn you Mr. Grey.

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Sat, 07 Apr 2012 11:03:00 -0400

She thinks she’s hot. Barf.

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She thinks she’s hot. Barf.

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The Vow

Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:22:28 -0500

Paige: I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness, and to have the patience that love demands. To speak when words are needed, and to share the silence when they're not. To agree to disagree on red velvet cake, and to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home.

Leo: I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love. I vow to love you, and no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find a way back to each other.

This movie was terrible but i LOVED the actually vows.

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Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:15:30 -0500

I haven't been on Tumblr in foreverrr!

Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:12:36 -0500

So it’s been forever since I’ve been on here.

Updates:

School: I start nursing school on the 27th and I’m excited for it. Woohoo!

Work: Still awesome but I want to transfer to a different position, and my boss wants to keep me there forever. I think it’s cute cause he loves me but let go of my wings bossman.

Parentals: My mom is annoying me, duh. My dad is my number one fan and I love him.

Friends: My best friend just turned 21 and were going to get fucked up at the Hardrock soon.

and finally, the boyfriend: I just don’t know sometimes. I love him but I want to kill him sometimes. Half the time its because I’m on my period and extra emotional and bitchy so Idk. i love him &&&& I’m so excited about Valentines day!

my life in a bundle.

"I’m really afraid to feel happy because it never lasts."

Mon, 13 Feb 2012 00:04:41 -0500

“I’m really afraid to feel happy because it never lasts.”

- Andy Warhol (via almostgolden)

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Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:10:22 -0500

<3

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"She smiles, I smile She walks, no she glides softly by me changing night into day She opens her..."

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“She smiles, I smile
She walks, no she glides softly by me changing night into day
She opens her mouth to speak, and so sounds ring in my head
She speaks, and I want to dance to her rhythm
She moves ever so gently, increasing my desires,
Desires to place my arms around her waist,
Hold and squeeze unto me,
I want to melt into her body, and discover the base of her warmth
Her beautiful black body that, no human mind could ever conceive
She’s love She’s truth She’s real, as real as the stars that shine in the heavens
As real as the sun that bathes her body,
As real as the moon that glows and the birds that sing and the rose
That blossoms in spring for she is that rose
And not just any rose,
But a black rose,
Black rose stands tall and stronger than any other plant
A black rose, that stands as creator, of nations of Black rose
That never loses her petals, and blossoms all year round
Black rose,
Sweet rose,
Thornless rose Eternal rose
Please look my way,
Please look my way
Please look my way Black rose”

- Abiodun Oyewole

(via thedopesoul)

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Thu, 12 Jan 2012 15:29:55 -0500

lovatoh: BOOBS Amazing dress!

Wed, 11 Jan 2012 20:22:51 -0500

lovatoh:

BOOBS

Amazing dress!

Best friend.

Wed, 11 Jan 2012 14:36:29 -0500

Best friend.

My Romeo. 😘 (Taken with instagram)

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My Romeo. 😘 (Taken with instagram)